Friday, August 29, 2008

Thank You

First, a quick update on Angel.

Not a lot has changed. We are still working on getting his formula feeds up so that the TPN (IV nutrition) can come down and he can come home. It is most likely that he will come home on some TPN at night. He is also not tolerating the medications they are trying to transition from IV to G-tube (in his tummy). He vomits each time they give the medication. When he is home he will be on infusions 24 hours a day with dressing changes every day on the wound on his belly, ostomy care and more than I can explain. But he is obviously stronger and spunkier and ready to come "home" possibly even next week. We will need to stay close to the hospital for a minimum of 3-4 weeks after he is discharged. We've already received a huge box full of his medications for when he gets out.

As the title of this blog says, we would also like to take a moment to express our thanks to all those who love us and support us so much. It has been overwhelming to see the amount of selfless giving that we have received. In the 24 hours after transplant we received 100's of requests of "what can we do?" "how can we help?" "WHERE can we give?". Many of those being far away and we, ourselves, being too far from home to just receive meals or babysitting and other tangible things. Thank you to Sandy for starting and upkeeping this blog and wanting to start fundraising for us. Thank you to my Dec 04 Moms for starting the TeamAngel website. And thank you each individual who has given ANYTHING - be it $10, $100, prayers, or just checking the blog and caring about Angel. ALL of this done without our ever requesting any financial support. Those who love us have given not because we asked but because that's what friends do when someone they love is going through difficult times.

Our family has gone through a lot and the sacrifices have been many in the last 5 years since adopting Angel. But - even when we get weary - we are encouraged by remembering that this is our calling and our passion. We would give every financial and physical thing away to have our son well again. But through your love we have been blessed not to worry about finances for a time. That is true and selfless love.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

As someone who has known you since 5th grade when you 'adopted' me as your friend, I know the sacrifices that you make for the people you care so passionately for. How awesome to have friends who are willing to see your needs and make requests on your behalf without you even asking! I am so proud of you both for setting aside your desires and needs so often to care for Angel, whether in the middle of the night when you are caring for him or making his days momentous and special so that your family will always have great memories together. May you continually experience God's blessings for doing what He called you to do.
Love,
Kathylynn

Anonymous said...

I wish there were more people in this world like you and your husband. I wish I had half the strengh, compassion and love that ya'll do. Again, if there is anything we can do up here in Tahoe please let me know. XO Jenny

Anonymous said...

I remember Angel in the hospital - a tiny, little boy with NO outside visitors for months on end...the fact that he is socially and emotionally able to connect with anyone is a tribute to your parenting skills. I don't know of any other young couple who have "started" their family by adopting a medically needy child!
The fact that you can juggle the needs of a newborn infant, a toddler and a newly transplanted 8 year old - all with NO whining or complaining - but, with grace, determination and humor is amazing and heartwarming!

Rachel said...

I am so happy Angel is doing well. I think about him and your family and it always makes me smile. You are beautiful people. I wish you all the very best.